Be kind to yourself, be true to yourself . . . two convictions that aren't always easy to accomplish. Too often we struggle to find out who we want to be, what we want to do, and how we can impact others in a positive way. "Find out who you are be that person"—a simple sentence with a powerful message. My sister has always says, "Don't say 'I'll try,' say 'I will.'" In other words, when you believe it will happen, work hard to make it happen, it will happen. Now that's a positive outlook.